Patterns of behavior or avoidance can indicate preference far more clearly than stated preferences.” Try to recall if she has had a sustained interest in the opposite sex if you have known her throughout puberty. Yes, because anyone who has a dysfunction is a lesbian. Yes, there’s no sure fire way of telling that someone is a lesbian and has no sexual interest in men by the very fact she sleeps with a lot of them.Īlternatively they could indicate some other dysfunction or dysphoria.”
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A series of brief, noncommittal, or largely non-romantic relationships with men can indicate a lack of sexual interest in men….” How to tell if your best friend a lesbian.Ĭonsider her relationship history. As long as they are gay that’s all that counts.ĥ. Yes, send out those ‘gay friends wanted’ ads everywhere, and don’t worry if they are cockwombles that you have nothing in common with. Get to know gay/lesbian friends! Even if you’re not interested in them they can be good contacts for meeting people.” Ok, we could say something like this: ‘Hi vicar, are you hosting a lesbian hook-up I could attend please? Wikihow said you hold them.’ Check with your local faith-based agencies to find out what opportunities they might have for you to meet other lesbians.” Many religious organizations host events specifically to offer LGBT members the opportunity to socialize in a safe setting. Where are the lesbians hiding? In church, duh.Īttend faith-based activities. We may need to warn our fellow hetero women she must never say she is not with her boyfriend or she may get inundated with lesbians wanting to date her.ģ. Not forgetting that even if a girl says ‘no’ she might be a lesbian because we can’t presume the possibility that her boyfriend is at home or she’s currently single. Now, why didn’t we think of that one as we often say to complete strangers we have never met ‘I’m a lesbian’ when asked if we are with our boyfriends. If you are shy, you can ask, ‘Are you here with your boyfriend?’ Hopefully, she will say, ‘No, I’m lesbian’ or at least just ‘no’ (which leaves open the possibility that she may be lesbian).” If you travel back in time, like to around 1993. Yep, as we all head off to those common and frequent LGBT rights dinner get-togethers you can keep your eyes open on the off chance a lesbian might be there. Look for obvious signs like meeting her at a LGBT rights dinner or her wearing a t-shirt that says ‘Lipstick Lesbian’ in her profile picture.” Wikihow is one of the first websites to appear when searching for advice online but if any of you have ever read some of the advice (that often comes with really funny illustrations to accompany it) then you will know that it’s often completely wrong or so bizarre it is like someone from another planet wrote it.īelow are some of the funniest pieces of advice offered to lesbians, but just for the record, we suggest you do the exact opposite of what is suggested!